"Ten tips for parents wishing to raise children deficient, debauched and anti-social" is a provocative book of John Notarnicola, psychologist, psychotherapist and lecturer in motor rehabilitation at the University of Florence, where ironically, but also accurately, trying to dismantle some of the educational habits of modern parents.
Everything is born from a trip to Polynesia:
"I saw children climbing trees, diving into water and collect shells, fall and not get hurt, play and have fun. I wondered: who is the master? Well, the teacher was the environment. “Source: Corriere Fiorentino.”
On the website of his association, A.N.I.M.A. (National Association of Italian Massimo Ausilio), he explains his method of education, environmentalism ingredient:
There is no person who does not carry with it from birth, basic information for living their lives report (including perinatal reflexes). The information comes from the experience of living of those who have gone before: two parents, four grandparents, etc..; A million people to move until the year 1400 to present.
This fed and enjoyed a legacy that we call intelligence of the species, have grown up since the beginning and its recovery can not be confined only to certain aspects of somatic, it extends to the measurement of sensations, and translated into concrete actions, backed by experience that we recovered come from the mists of time, from the 'I' that is both historical progeny containing and content, identity and belonging, motivation and knowledge. [... More]
Before leaving the list of suggestions, let me close with the words of John: "A child is not treated is a child mistreated!"
10 tips for parents wishing to raise children deficient, debauched and asocial:
1. Infancy satisfied in all that cloth so requests, the first waiver, will the seizures.
2. Do not continue with the formation of moral honesty, solidarity, hard work, gentleness, are characteristic for weak people.
3. Collect and rearranged what you leave around, grow up thinking that the responsibilities are only of others.
4. Do you fight often and violently in front of him, even for trivial things, and grow with the idea that marriage is something to be avoided with care.
5. Defend it everywhere and always clear the notion that dividends are the others (classmates, teachers, friends, etc.) not to "understand". Try to make him well understand that a school should be studied not only to be postponed.
6. Give him too much money asking: when will notice, in future, we must work for it, will remain stunned.
7. Do not ever biting their heads off for his misdeeds, may derive a sense of guilt, so as an adult, finding a misdemeanor on his car in obvious no-parking, will think of being persecuted.
8. Let him harass the animals, harassing fellow weaker mock the elderly and damaging the property of others taking over everything with the appropriate cellular strongly believe in God, because God and he will think that is the same person.
9. Make him watch TV all you want, without limits, grow thinking that life, people, things and events can be adjusted with its remote control.
10. Do not let him enjoy activities and sports, meanwhile, sweats and because you can hurt, then, learn to live together with others, learn to know how to win, a loser to know how to fight, to know sacrifice is the prerogative of insecure people. Better to make the sport with the "sit" he sat in the gallery!
Everything is born from a trip to Polynesia:
"I saw children climbing trees, diving into water and collect shells, fall and not get hurt, play and have fun. I wondered: who is the master? Well, the teacher was the environment. “Source: Corriere Fiorentino.”
On the website of his association, A.N.I.M.A. (National Association of Italian Massimo Ausilio), he explains his method of education, environmentalism ingredient:
There is no person who does not carry with it from birth, basic information for living their lives report (including perinatal reflexes). The information comes from the experience of living of those who have gone before: two parents, four grandparents, etc..; A million people to move until the year 1400 to present.
This fed and enjoyed a legacy that we call intelligence of the species, have grown up since the beginning and its recovery can not be confined only to certain aspects of somatic, it extends to the measurement of sensations, and translated into concrete actions, backed by experience that we recovered come from the mists of time, from the 'I' that is both historical progeny containing and content, identity and belonging, motivation and knowledge. [... More]
Before leaving the list of suggestions, let me close with the words of John: "A child is not treated is a child mistreated!"
10 tips for parents wishing to raise children deficient, debauched and asocial:
1. Infancy satisfied in all that cloth so requests, the first waiver, will the seizures.
2. Do not continue with the formation of moral honesty, solidarity, hard work, gentleness, are characteristic for weak people.
3. Collect and rearranged what you leave around, grow up thinking that the responsibilities are only of others.
4. Do you fight often and violently in front of him, even for trivial things, and grow with the idea that marriage is something to be avoided with care.
5. Defend it everywhere and always clear the notion that dividends are the others (classmates, teachers, friends, etc.) not to "understand". Try to make him well understand that a school should be studied not only to be postponed.
6. Give him too much money asking: when will notice, in future, we must work for it, will remain stunned.
7. Do not ever biting their heads off for his misdeeds, may derive a sense of guilt, so as an adult, finding a misdemeanor on his car in obvious no-parking, will think of being persecuted.
8. Let him harass the animals, harassing fellow weaker mock the elderly and damaging the property of others taking over everything with the appropriate cellular strongly believe in God, because God and he will think that is the same person.
9. Make him watch TV all you want, without limits, grow thinking that life, people, things and events can be adjusted with its remote control.
10. Do not let him enjoy activities and sports, meanwhile, sweats and because you can hurt, then, learn to live together with others, learn to know how to win, a loser to know how to fight, to know sacrifice is the prerogative of insecure people. Better to make the sport with the "sit" he sat in the gallery!
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